Day 26 #HAWMC: Make it a Great Day!

As we all know, hemophilia gets in the way sometimes. A bleed can stop us from having fun. A bad stick, be it an IV infusion or a port stick can be awful. Unfortunately, we've all had bad days. But today I'm to share with you 5 tips on how to make a bad day, a good day!

1. Take a deep breath. It's a moment in time...take it minute by minute if you need to but know that it doesn't have to ruin your entire day.

2. Focus on the positive. You've got a bleed...now you have time to watch that series on Netflix that has been on your wish list!!

3. Lean on your family or friends. You know, the supportive ones. And if you don't have one then go on Facebook and chat with the hemophilia community...there is always someone on line!

4. Tomorrow is a new day. Fresh eyes on a new day gives you perspective and the opportunity to be thankful, yes, thankful, even for those crappy days.

5. Get some rest. I know, I know, I need to listen to my own tips but even a 15 minute cat nap can make your attitude and mood that much better. It can give you the added strength to tackle the situation.

I hope you have a great day!!

Thanks Google Images for a fun great day smiley face!! 

Bleeds, Bleeders and Beards...oh my!

Have you noticed how hairy it's become lately?! I know I have!! Especially in my house. A few months back...actually, September 1st my mildly hairy husband shaved it all off. He was as smooth as a baby's butt. 

Look at that baby smoothness! 

So, what's the big deal? Well...fellow Hemo friend and Dad, John Bruno, came up with a plan...a movement if you will...

And thanks to fellow Hemo brother, Jay D. Bishop for the awesome design!!

It's all rather hairy if you ask me!! But what better way to raise awareness for Hemophilia OR any bleeding disorder than growing a beard. I know my hubby has been getting a lot of attention with his Grizzly Adams look. To which he happily replies "I'm growing my beard to raise awareness for my son's bleeding disorder, hemophilia". Oh...did I mention they are growing their beards for six months? Just in time for Hemophilia Awareness Month! You can check out the website HERE. The goal is not only to raise awareness but to raise funds for your bleeding disorder charity of choice. We are choosing our local chapter, the TriState Bleeding Disorder Foundation. Our local chapter has been wonderful not only to us but to all the families and individuals in our area. We would love to give back to them as much as they give to us through Educational Days and conferences, outreach events, hemophilia camp and support groups. If you feel so inclined we would love for you to sponsor Joe's beard!! While I'm setting up a fundraising page you can send your tax deductible donation to http://www.tsbdf.com/. Just let them know you are supporting the bleeding community AND some hairy bearded dude named Joe. 

Here's Captain Jackson growing his beard. 

Joe's 9 week picture!! Can you say Grizzly?! 

Surviving the first lost tooth!

I've been bad about blogging lately. It's all good. Busy living life! However, this summer we can check off a milestone for Jackson. It's the same milestone that I've worried about as a Hemo Mom...the dreaded lost tooth. I've known it was coming. His dentist kept telling me for the past year that he has a wiggly tooth at every cleaning we went to. But I still worried.

How would he lose it?

Would it be the kind that hangs on for dear life?

Would it be wiggly for months?

Would it bleed?

So I get a call while at work. My kids know not to call me unless someone is dead, dying, bleeding or broken. Texting is fine for other things but calls are left for the serious issues. I answer my phone and it's Jackson on his sister's phone. "Mommy? I lost my tooth!!! I can't find it!"

I calmly reply "congratulations!! And what do mean you can't find it? Put your sister on the phone."

His sister then tells me they were looking at themselves in the mirror. Being all silly and practicing various smiles when she notices he has an open space between his teeth. The good thing: he lost it and didn't even know it AND he didn't bleed one drop, not even a speck. Not that it would've been a big deal as we would have administered Amicar and factored up. But that he was able to have a non-bloody lose tooth event was great! I realize that they won't all be this way. But I'll be happy with this little victory!

The photo his sister took and text me just after losing his tooth!

Since we never did recover the tooth we wrote a letter to the Tooth Fairy to let her know! 

Day 27: #HAWMC: Titles

If I was to write a book about our life, our community, our health condition, what would it be called? Come up with 5 working titles.

1. The Loving Family Chaos (describes our life perfectly!)

2. Bleeds...there's never a good time for a bleed (ain't nobody got time for that!)

3. Infusing with Love and Factor (need some love and medicine!)

4.  Hemophilia: Living and Thriving (because it's true!)

5. Jackson's Hemo-maniac Krew (just because that's how we roll and my son has an obsession with pirates!)